The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and, of course, gift-giving. 

But what if your baby receives a gift that isn’t their thing?

While it’s heartwarming to receive presents, it can sometimes be a bit tricky to manage gifts that don’t quite fit your needs or preferences, especially when it comes to baby gifts.

Perhaps it is too flashy or overstimulating. Maybe it doesn’t fit with your educational vision for your baby. Maybe you have another one exactly like it.

Communicate Your Wishes Early

One of the best ways to avoid unwanted gifts is to communicate your wishes upfront. Keep a list on your phone or jot down items as you think of them. Then, when a family member asks for a gift list for your child, you’re already ready. This proactive approach can help guide their gift-giving choices.

Suggest Alternative Gifts 

If you’re trying to minimize material possessions for your child, consider suggesting alternative gifts. This could include:

• Monetary gifts: Money given for holidays and special occasions can be used to start a college fund or save for future expenses.
• Charitable donations: You can ask for donations to a children’s charity or nonprofit in your child’s name. Some nonprofits even give a gift in return, like a plushie when supporting endangered animals.
• Experiences: Gift experiences like family outings, tickets to a children’s theater performance, a membership, or a class are great alternatives to physical gifts.
• Educational toys: Family members can support your baby’s learning and development with gifts like Happy Little People™ Toddler and Baby Activity Cards

Always Express Gratitude, No Matter What

Remember, the thought behind the gift is what truly matters. Even if a gift isn’t exactly what you had in mind, always express gratitude to the giver. A heartfelt thank-you note or a phone call can go a long way in showing your appreciation.

Returning, Donating, and Regifting Baby Gifts

Did your undesired gift come with a gift receipt? Amazing! Go ahead and return it. 

Is there something else making it harder to know what to do with your unwanted Christmas gifts? If you receive a gift that you don’t need or want, consider these options:

• Regifting: Pass the gift on to someone who would appreciate it. Just be sure to choose someone who won’t recognize the gift or its original giver.
• Give it away: Another great option is to give this item to another family who can use it better than your child could. 
• Donating: Donate items to a local charity, or thrift store.